Love Isn’t Optional

Key Text:  2 John 1-6

The elder, To the lady chosen by God and to her children, whom I love in the truth—and not I only, but also all who know the truth—  because of the truth, which lives in us and will be with us forever:

 Grace, mercy and peace from God the Father and from Jesus Christ, the Father’s Son, will be with us in truth and love.

 It has given me great joy to find some of your children walking in the truth, just as the Father commanded us.  And now, dear lady, I am not writing you a new command but one we have had from the beginning. I ask that we love one another.  And this is love: that we walk in obedience to his commands. As you have heard from the beginning, his command is that you walk in love.

John says it isn’t a new commandment and, most important, he says it isn’t optional.

What is he talking about?

He is talking about loving.

It is tragic that for the thousands of years that have passed since John first wrote about it, religion has divided as much, if not more, than united people.  So many churches built and so many destroyed; so many heresy trials and witch hunts; so many wars fought over this particular religious doctrine or another.

Am I opposed to organized religion?  Not at all – it has been a big part of my life’s calling.

Do I hold dear some doctrinal beliefs that others find to be incorrect, even offensive?  Probably.

Even so, am I opposed to any belief being the reason for people treating each other in ways that Christ would find appalling?  You bet I am opposed to that.

“This is love, “John writes, “that we walk in obedience to his commands.  As you have heard from the beginning, his command is that you walk in love.”

We might argue all day long about what actually constitutes “loving” someone as Christ would have us love them but I would argue one thing is painfully clear.

Whether or not to love them isn’t optional.  It’s a command.

Break it at your own risk.

By Paul Simrell

The Reverend Paul W. Simrell has served for over thirty years in a variety of congregational and institutional settings. He is a recognized minister with standing in the Virginia region of the Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) in the United States and Canada and is nationally endorsed by the Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) for specialized ministry in both pastoral counseling and chaplaincy. Ordained in 1982, he has served congregations in Kentucky, Texas, Florida, and Virginia. He currently serves as the pastor of Elpis Christian Church, a small, historic congregation located just a few miles west of Richmond, Virginia. Elpis is the Greek word meaning “expectant hope.” He also serves on the associate clinical staff of the Virginia Institute of Pastoral Care, Richmond, Virginia, both as a pastoral counselor and a ministerial assessment specialist, specializing in executive, clergy and relationship coaching. He is a graduate of the University of Florida and Lexington Theological Seminary and has done advanced clinical training in chaplaincy and pastoral counseling at the University of Kentucky Medical Center in Lexington, Kentucky, Children’s Medical Center and Parkland Hospital in Dallas, Texas and the Virginia Institute of Pastoral Care in Richmond, Virginia. He is a Certified Pastoral Counselor, an ACPE Practitioner, and a member of the American Association of Christian Counselors. He is a Certified Facilitator of the Prepare-Enrich relationship assessment and skills-building program and served as a volunteer chaplain for over twenty years with the CJW Medical Center campuses in Richmond, Virginia. His avocational interests include playing the piano and drawing. He is very happily married to his wife Elizabeth Yeamans Simrell, a free-lance writer, who is also a Certified Facilitator for the Prepare-Enrich program. Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton

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